Have you always longed for an open, honest relationship with your child? Have you wanted to be the kind of parent that your child feels comfortable sharing things with? Have you found discipline a challenging thing for you to enforce? If your answer to any of the above questions were yes, the parenting tips below are for you!
One of the most important tips for all parents to remember is patience. Children are very illogical depending on the phase of development and this can be really difficult for many parents to deal with. Sometimes, they will have a tantrum for no real reason and you will have to find a way to just ride it out.
Do not feel ashamed if you want to take parenting classes. These classes are made to help parents cope with the stresses and difficult decisions that come with parenting. By taking these classes, you are showing that you are willing to do whatever it takes in order to improve your parenting skills.
If your child likes to take their pajamas and diapers off while they are in their crib or unattended, try this neat little trick. Cut the feet off of an old pair of footsie pajamas and put them on your child backwards. It will make it so they cannot unzip them and take them off.
Make sure you have your child's password for any social media sites so you can easily monitor on-line activities. Whether you ever log on to their account or not, knowing you can encourages your child to be more responsible with the information or photographs shared and their interactions with others.
When birthdays or other gift giving holidays come around, instead of taking your child shopping, help them make a present. Not only will your child get to be creative and give a unique gift, but you'll get to spend quality time together. This is especially good if the present is for the child's other parent or another relative.
To preserve your sanity after having a new baby, do not be afraid to ask friends and family to give you and your new family some space or to ask them to pitch in with cooking or cleaning if they do visit. You and your spouse need time to adjust, bond and catch up on sleep.
When you reach the boiling point with your children, take the time to try some self-calming techniques to make sure that you don't do anything hurtful. There are many tools you can use, including breathing deeply, removing yourself from the situation for a few minutes, and redirecting your thoughts in a positive direction.
Establish a relaxing, fun bedtime routine to help ensure your child a good night's sleep. When a child is having fun playing, or excited about what he is doing, it's a real mood-buster to hear the dreaded words, "Bedtime. Right now!" Instead, try to wind down the evening with a 15 minute warning, followed by a bedtime snack, tooth-brushing, or maybe a few minutes of cuddling on the couch. An interesting, funny, or happy bedtime story is the perfect end to your child's routine, as it gives him some alone time with you and helps him relax on his way to dreamland! Conclude the "bedtime-experience" with a starry sky projector - a beautiful way to end the day!
Thunderstorms can be frightening to young children. Next time a storm rolls through, yell "BOOM" and laugh as the thunder claps, and encourage your little one to do the same. The next time a storm rolls through your child will think it's a game because you showed her how not to be afraid.
Talk to your kids and listen when they talk to you. Welcome dialogue about uncomfortable topics as this will help you get to understand your children and their needs better! The tips above will help you become a better parent so your kid can be the best kid he or she can be!